We are starting our Homeschooling after the long weekend. So this week it was cleaning. I wanted to have a good starting point for this journey. I also completely cleaned out one of our cars of 10 years of kids stuff as we are preparing to sell the vehicle. I am also trying to realign my kids sleep schedule to a more reasonable time. Waking up at 11am is not going to work.
In our homeschool this week…
As we have not yet started it was all my last minute preparations. I got his online Rosetta Stone course setup. I found a headset that works for his practice. Can’t wait to get started
I am inspired by…
So many things have inspired me. I am feeling welcome in the various communities online and off that I have joined.
Places we’re going and people we’re seeing…
We had dinner last Saturday with a a family of homeschoolers that was very informative. It was also good for my son to have someone to play with. They have a son that is the same age as my son. All kids get into trouble. With my son I know what to expect. With a new friend comes new ideas thus the discovery that they could climb onto the roof of the play structure. From there they managed to scramble onto the roofs of the sheds.
I am quite enjoying the book and plan on getting my son to read it after I am done with it. It will probably be a blog post at some point.
We started out with a large beef roast on Saturday that fed my family and the the other plus gave us a second night same as the first. I made a seafood chowder for Sunday that also got us extra dinners. It also provided lunches for my wife. Thursday my wife was out for the evening so we had hot dog on the BBQ and carrot sticks. Tonight I have a giant ham to cook up with homemade Scalloped Potatoes.
I’m praying for…
There is a list of kids that I follow on CaringBridge that are fighting cancer that I pray for. All are currently doing well with ‘doing well’ being a relative term. So many of them are blessed with such a grace and understanding of God’s work. I remember one little boy upon meeting a homeless person and having it explained to him by his mom felt that he need to help this man.
We have not yet had our first day of homeschooling. As this is my first year and I tend to be very analytical (Take off the ‘ytical’ is you must) I have spend hours planning out a schedule. I have enough work experience to understand that it probably won’t survive the first day. My plan is to monitor how much time it does take and what books work and adjust accordingly.
I got my curriculum about a week ago. After all the research I couldn’t wait to get my hand on it. When I finally got it all I had a huge pile and a minor panic attack. “I need to read all of this”. After reading the Babycenter Homeschooling group I knew I wasn’t alone. I was reminded of the old joke. “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.”
I opened up each book looked at the table of content and flipped through the first couple of pages. I counted the number of lessons, days, weeks, chapters, or sections and made a spreadsheet. I figured out how many weeks of material each book was given how many day per week I was going to do it. I also guessed at how much time it was going to take each day. The time per day is the biggest question mark.
From that I made up my first week schedule and then my daily plan. I remembered the analogy of putting rocks in a jar. You have to put the big rocks in first so you can fit the little rock around the big ones. If you put the little one in first, the big ones won’t fit. So Student Writing Intensive was the biggest so it went first. Words of Wisdom went next. It is very nicely laid out week by week, day by day. IXL Math and Foreign Language both just have one resource so they each got their own daily time slot. I then filled in some language art spots with vocabulary and spelling. I start social studies with Canadian Governments as I looks like I don’t have much material and I have project plans that require that knowledge. Science we are doing human anatomy. I am using material from CK-12.org as I wasn’t going to pay $80 for a book I hated. My background is heavy in the sciences.
So the plan for out first day. Wake up a 6:30 am. That is my wake up time but I’ll have the kids up by 6:45. Breakfast starts at 7am. We also have to get my daughter who is continuing in the public system ready for the day. She has already indicated an interest in homeschooling next year. She will have the opportunity to choose again next year. 8 am is exercise. My son’s ADD medication takes 1/2 an hour to take effect and we have found that exercise first thing in the morning helps with his concentration. Daddy could also use the exercise. Bible is 8:30 am. Again we found that quiet prayer helps with concentration. Math and Student Writing Intensive are next. This when he is most likely to be most focused. I put the break in the middle of language arts as that is his toughest course. That may change I think it will help but I could be very wrong. We then have Foreign Language and music/art. After Lunch we will have quiet reading. Some of that will be assigned for his course work but mostly it will be his choice. We then have either Science or Social Studies. These are his favourites so I am putting them at the end of the day. The last item is writing. We wants to be a writer so this will be free writing. This is also the time that I will have to go get my daughter from school so he will have no distractions. My toddler and I will be out of the house.
Now that I have a plan I am back to being confident and look forward to getting started. Now my wife just reading this post has pointed out that I only have a four day week and my daughter has a short day on Tuesday and the kids have Dentist appointments on Friday. I knew all of that. I made the dentist appointments. Guess I need to re-plan already.
This year I will be homeschooling my Grade 5 son Philip. He loves to read and devours books. A number of nights I’ve checked in on them before I go to bed and find him still reading. He also loves science and we talk frequently about it. He also wants to be a writer. There he needs a lot more practice.
Philip has a complex history that affects a wide range of things. He is a two time cancer survivor. He was first diagnosed at age 3 1/2 with neuroblastoma. He under went 9 month of heavy chemo, surgery, radiation. They finished with Megadose chemo and a stem cell rescue of his bone marrow. With the stem cells they harvested them from him early in treatment and froze them. The Megadose wiped out his bone marrow and they gave him back his frozen cells and regrew his bone marrow. He was cancer free for a year and then it came back. They hit it hard with radiation and more chemo. A year later it was no longer visible. We continued the chemo for another year. He has now been cancer free for 4.5 years and off treatment for 3.5.
The positives out of this. First he has a very deep spiritual life. He knows the odds he beat were not good and he recognize and thanks God for that. Second he doesn’t give up. That can be double edge sword at times but overall a positive. Third he believes in his own abilities. He is not one to not try because it looks difficult. That is also a double edge sword. I sometime thinks he looks at things like “It has a 1 in 10000 chance of killing me but I beat a cancer that had a 4 in 5 chance so I can do it”. I can no longer keep up to him on skis. He confidently does double black runs. Fortunately my wife can keep up with him.
The negatives beside the obvious one. First he is very small for his age, about 1 percent on the height and weight charts. The doctors are keeping an eye on that but it is a common side effect. It means that he is the smallest by far in his class. Its so bad that it looks like he doesn’t belong. It also means he’s a target. He also gets angry easily and some of the kids learned which button to push. Needless to say that lead to some disciplinary problems. Last year he went from grade 3 to grade 4. Where we are there are class size limits that change at that point. So grade 3, 16 classmates, grade 4, 32. Back to the negatives.
He also has high frequency hearing loss. What it means that there are certain sounds he can not hear. He can compensate with filling in the blanks from context. He also has access to a portable FM system and the teacher is amplified. It won’t be a problem for me homeschooling.
Philip also has ADD and although I have tried a number of alternative regiments and have some more to try he is medicated. With medication he does very well. Days that we forget well that’s another story.
So that’s or basic background. We are homeschooling because we don’t have the behaviour problem except at school. Not that I expect everything to come up roses. While he is a good student we believe that he can do better in a better environment. I am also cautiously optimistic that I can reduce his ADD medication. We can cover topics at his pace and tailor to his learning style. Overall I can’t wait to get started.